-says it is time to break cultural barriers

-by Shamiah Grant

 Domestic violence continues to affect hundreds in 2025, yet many victims stay silent. Help & Shelter says fear, shame, and old stereotypes make it especially hard for victims, particularly men, to speak out.

With nearly 340 domestic violence cases reported to Help and Shelter in 2025, the organisation continues to provide free support services, including face-to-face counseling, emergency shelter, coaching, and referrals.

Speaking exclusively with NCN News, Project Coordinator Colin Marks revealed that only about six percent of reported cases involved men, highlighting how long-standing stereotypes about masculinity often stop men from seeking help.

“One word that covers it all is culture, it’s that socialisation that they are exposed to, that all of us are exposed to that men are supposed to be strong, they don’t crack, and they don’t cry, they don’t reach out, they don’t need help, they stand alone.”

He noted that this cultural mindset not only discourages reporting but also contributes to the misconception that domestic violence is an issue that affects only women. As a result, male victims may feel isolated, invalidated, or ashamed, even when they are experiencing abuse.

To address this issue, Marks emphasised the importance of continuous public education and awareness campaigns aimed at reshaping perceptions around domestic violence and encouraging men to seek help.

“Quite frankly, public education is one way, and always keep raising the awareness that men are also sometimes victims and sometimes survivors of domestic violence. Men don’t report even though they are cases in which they are the victims.”

Help and Shelter is therefore calling on all victims of domestic violence, regardless of gender, to break their silence and access the organisation’s free and confidential services. 

Marks explained that once a victim reaches out, counseling and support can begin almost immediately, providing a critical first step toward safety and healing.

The organisation also assures victims that all interactions are handled with sensitivity and confidentiality, creating a safe space for individuals who may fear judgment or retaliation.

Persons seeking assistance or more information can contact Help and Shelter via its 24-hour hotlines at 633-3788 or 613-1811.